The Dennis Gaze
It is my
understanding from the world around us that women are looked at as more or less
here to make the men happy and depend on him. This patriarchal ideology is not
all that accurate in some cases. I also don’t agree with it, but this ideology
is forced on us in almost all of the main stream media we see today for example
Hodkinson quotes Dworkin, MacKinnon, on page 222:
“Other theorists have focused on more every day mainstream
media depictions, which presented women as subordinate and to depend on men…”
This is again focusing on the male dominant norm that women
fall under in today’s media.
Despite the prevalence of this I
believe I have found one exception that somewhat challenges this norm. Episode
10 season 5 of Its Always Sunny in Philadelphia, In this episode one of the
writers of the show Glenn Howerton aka Denis, develops the D.E.N.N.I.S system.
What is this you ask? Well according to Denis it’s “a system for getting any
chicks undying love and emotion, for life”.
Lets start
with the D of this system, and yes this is an acronym used to get women. In the
words of Dennis the “systemic approach” or learnable step-by-step approach to
getting any girl starts with Demonstrating your value to the women. In this
case Kayle the pharmacist is Dennis’s target. He demonstrates his value to her
by asking her to fill a prescription for his “very ill grandma” this, in Dennis’s
mind is showing her he’s a caring good guy. Then comes the E in this system,
which stands for Engaging physically. This is when Dennis knowingly takes the
woman to a closed restaurant so he can het her back to his place and engage her
physically.
Then there’s
the N, this is where things get pretty stereotypical on the man’s side of
things. The N stands for Nurture her dependence this in Dennis’s head means
scare the shit out of her on the phone so she comes running to you for
protection because she cant protect her self. When Dennis introduces this
strategy to the guys they all start acting like monkeys, flexing their muscles
and literally making monkey noises. Now this might be an over exaggeration or
even an under exaggeration, the point is it is assumed that in the male culture
we act like a primitive species when it comes to women. We resort to things
like need of ownership and or the expectation that the woman WILL depend on the
man in barbaric ways. I believe us men are stereotyped like this because of the
mainstream media and the way it is portraying femininity vs. masculinity as an
uphill battle on the feminine part. Which is portrayed very creatively within
this episode of its always sunny, when Dee tells ben (her online soldier
boyfriend) that she’s independent and can handle her self while shortly after
falling down a huge dirt hill, then crawling back up still chanting “I can do
it by my self I don’t need help”. This, in my mind semiologically depicts the
constant down hill up hill battle for respect for women in the mainstream media
and over all culture.
Getting
back on track with the D.E.N.N.I.S acronym, I believe we left off on the N,
which has quite an interesting meaning in the sociopathic mind of Dennis. Which
is Neglect, by this he goes on in telling the guys that if you completely neglect
her and make her fell threatened, for example with a phone call pretending to
be a serial killing neighbor (which he did in the previous letter N) she will
come running to him again for help but he won’t be there. This brings us on to
our next letter which is I, inspire hope by after completely neglecting her you
come back and bring her hopes up. Then quickly after engaging her physically
again you, S, separate entirely.
This overly complicated, psychotic way
to get a girl I feel is purposely put in place by the writers for a couple
reasons. One it’s blatantly obvious that its really messed up to do this to a
woman and chances are its not going to work. Two, instead of discretely
pointing out the flaws in in modern media, the male gaze and the way women are
wrongly portrayed in out society, I feel that the writers made the D.E.N.N.I.S acronym
not out of tips to getting a woman, but out of obvious flaws in things such as
the male gaze that are going unnoticed to the greater society. I believe they
brought these flaws to fruition to make a mockery of what is happening to the societal
relationship between men and women. I also believe they wanted us viewers to
see how lost in the mainstream media we’ve all become. Which is why when
everyone on the cast try’s Dennis’s system it fails miserably and they all end
up looking like a bunch of primitive cavemen trying to get a women.










